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My husband keeps losing control :-(

Posted by pinkeye on July 16, 2005, at 17:12:05 [reposted on July 22, 2005, at 0:51:23 | original URL]

Today it happens again.. he hits me. And for nothing I did.
I was just making tea for myself, and he said he was hungry.. I asked him to make something for himself, or wait for sometime. He got angry, and took my tea and poured it down into the sink. I got angry and then threw something else we had onto the floor.. and went and sat in the sofa..

HE comes and starts pushing me down and hits me.. And I tried to prevent and threw the remote I had on to him and then he start hitting.. I got very angry and started to cry..

He keeps losing control.. Before atleast I would do something stupid and he would get angry.. But now I am really giving in for many things, and for nothing he gets angry and hits me.. And I am getting so mad.

Should I tell my parents.. I haven't told them even once about his behavior.. If I tell them my marriage will end up in divorce.. But he keeps saying he won't hit me, and then one month later he does it again. And I feel very bad.

I haven't inititated violence once for the past three years.. but he does it again and again. And this time it really got on to my nerves, becuase I was just making tea for myself, and didn't do anything to make him angry. He said he was getting angry because I didn't give him something to eat, and he says it is all my fault.


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