Posted by Susan47 on July 19, 2005, at 21:44:01 [reposted on July 22, 2005, at 0:51:26 | original URL]
In reply to Re: Thanks everyone again » pinkeye, posted by Susan47 on July 19, 2005, at 21:02:42
This is what happened to me, tonight. I wanted to see my children, to touch them and hug them and say goodnight.. and my ex- wouldn't allow me. Because we had children, we divorced, and I wasn't working and going through so much personal trauma I didn't have the strength to fight, he ended up getting everything he wanted, which included the children.
I can honestly say if I could live it again I wouldn't have started any relationship with him at all because I knew from the beginning, all the signs were there, that it was a mistake. You seem to be saying that over and over again. If you think it hurts now, I can guarantee you it will hurt more if you have children with this man. And then it will be hurting the children as well. Just a thought. I expect you won't take kindly to it, I understand that too. Put it down to me venting. I hope I didn't upset you unnecessarily. Take good care.
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