Posted by annierose on July 16, 2005, at 22:30:59 [reposted on July 22, 2005, at 0:51:24 | original URL]
In reply to Re: *get help* » ghost, posted by pinkeye on July 16, 2005, at 17:55:00
Try not to make excuses for him. There is NEVER a "good" reason to be hit ... EVER!
Will it be okay if he hits your (future) children?
Will it be okay if they see you get hit? That will send the message to your son, when you get upset, you can hit your wife and behave like a 2 year old having a tantrum. It sends the message to your daughter, it's okay when you start dating for your male friend to hit you and belittle you.He hits you for control. Please don't defend him.
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