Posted by Mal on July 26, 2005, at 20:47:00
OK, here goes.
My husband wants to take (digital) pictures. Um, adult digital pictures. That isn't my thing at all. I know he enjoys porn but it is a complete turn off for me. We don't fight about it. He looks at some stuff online and I know it but just don't bitch about it.Part of my reason for resisting the photos (even those that would be impossible to identify us) is that there is ENOUGH porn in the world without me contributing. Another part is that it just feels so trashy to me. (that is not to say that those who DO make photos are trashy) Another thing is I wonder what in the world is he going to do with them? If I was absolutely certain he is the only person who could ever see them, I'd probably do it, but I know it is so easy to copy/send/email/post stuff. Now I know that sounds like we have trust issues, but we don't have that sort of problem... We have been married for nearly 10 years and we are very happy.
I don't want to be a prude, and I would like to indulge his fantasies a little... So should I be flattered and let him have a few pics (OK he already has a few unidentifiable pics, but none that are really hard core) or stick to my guns here? I would really like a male perspective on this...
Thanks, MAL
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