Posted by Damos on July 27, 2005, at 0:19:21
In reply to porn?, posted by Mal on July 26, 2005, at 20:47:00
Hi Mal,
In all honesty I don't think it has anything to do with you being a prude or not. As you said, your feelings about porn are clear. It's about what feels right to you. It's about you having personal boundaries and him respecting you enough to respect them. It's about not giving in on this only to find yourself on a slippery slope that might be hard to get off.
Quite simply if your were going to be uncomfortable and feeling bad about yourself, how could he feel good about it - then or later. Personally I couldn't find myself turned on by something that made you feel bad.
Hope you can find ways to be together that are good for you both.
poster:Damos
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