Posted by Mal on July 27, 2005, at 6:40:32
In reply to Re: porn? » Mal, posted by Damos on July 27, 2005, at 0:19:21
>It's about what feels right to you. It's about you having personal boundaries and him respecting you enough to respect them. It's about not giving in on this only to find yourself on a slippery slope that might be hard to get off.
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> Quite simply if your were going to be uncomfortable and feeling bad about yourself, how could he feel good about it - then or later. Personally I couldn't find myself turned on by something that made you feel bad.
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> Hope you can find ways to be together that are good for you both.
Oh, we have a great sex life, just not quite often enough... We have a toddler, but when we get to it, it is GREAT!!ANd we already had this conversation- he wanted to take some pics and I said NO, and we had a great time anyway. He didn't sulk. It was just my afterthought that made me ask ya'll what you think.
THanks for the input.
MAL
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