Posted by Mal on July 28, 2005, at 7:43:05
In reply to Mal » alexandra_k, posted by Susan47 on July 27, 2005, at 22:13:20
> My experience is those home-made pics never look extremely flattering.. unless there's a good photographer around. You know what I'd do? What I've always been tempted to do but never had the nerve, maybe you do .. have a professional photographer take intimate, glamorous photos of you and give them to hubby as a gift. Because the home-made kind can haunt you, in my experience anyway. I don't like being objectified, and that's how it feels to me. But the professional, intimate, flattering photos.. those can be beautiful.
YOu are right. I don't have much of a problem with tastful nudes, but I don't think I have the confidence to do it myself. Besides, I don't think tasteful nudes is what he had in mind! LOL But that might be a good thing to try sometime- a little fantasy play where we do some tasteful stuff. He is actually a good photographer, it is just that we don't have a lot of good props- luxurious curtains or fancy chaise lounges...
THanks,
MAL
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