Posted by Tamar on July 31, 2005, at 18:25:08
In reply to porn?, posted by Mal on July 26, 2005, at 20:47:00
Interesting thread!
My two cents: I don't see that taking pictures of yourself and possibly your husband is the same thing as porn. Not as long as it's for your own personal use, anyway.
To be honest, I find porn very arousing and I used to watch it a lot, but now but I don't own it or buy it because I really hate the way women are depicted as victims. So much of it is either overtly violent or uses implied violent imagery. (That stuff doesn't turn me on at all.) But even the less offensive stuff is produced in a way that I find very problematic.
However, I have no problem with making photos or videos of me and my husband. I don't believe he would show them to anyone or put them on the net. I just don't think he'd want anyone to see his wife's c*nt, to put it bluntly. I don't think it's porn.
The bottom line is that if you don't feel comfortable with it, you shouldn't be expected to do it, and you shouldn't feel guilty or uncomfortable about refusing.
On the other hand... would you be at all interested in having a photo of your husband naked and aroused?
Tamar
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