Re: Yes.

Posted by gardenergirl on May 3, 2005, at 1:37:35

In reply to Re: Yes. » AuntieMel, posted by sunny10 on May 2, 2005, at 14:59:00

sunny,
Trust is not just a given, it has to be earned. And he has to work very hard to earn your trust, in my opinion.
That involves being where he says he's going to be, letting you know what's going on in his life, etc. He needs to bend over backwards and overcompensate checking in and working to earn your trust again.
It's not you that is untrusting. Please don't beat yourself up about it. It's he who has not been trustworthy. It's all up to him, IMO.
gg

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Please help- need advice sunny10 5/2/05
Yes. » sunny10 Susan47 5/2/05
Re: Yes. » Susan47 sunny10 5/2/05
Re: Yes. » sunny10 AuntieMel 5/2/05
Re: Yes. » AuntieMel sunny10 5/2/05
Re: Please help- need advice » sunny10 broken 5/2/05
Re: looking for calming exercises or something sunny10 5/2/05
Re: looking for calming exercises or something » sunny10 Susan47 5/2/05
Oh Sunny, tell me it's not true » sunny10 Damos 5/2/05
On the other hand... Tamar 5/2/05
Re: On the other hand... sunny10 5/2/05
Sorry Sunny :-( » sunny10 Damos 5/3/05
Re: Yes. gardenergirl 5/3/05
Thought stopping and earning trust gardenergirl 5/3/05
Re: On the other hand... » sunny10 Larry Hoover 5/3/05
Re: Please help- need advice AdaGrace 5/3/05
Sunny Susan47 5/3/05
Staying Away, Okay? Sunny Susan47 5/3/05
Re: On the other hand... » Larry Hoover sunny10 5/3/05
Re: Sorry I'm hurting you, Suze, not my intent... (nm) sunny10 5/3/05
Re: On the other hand... » sunny10 Larry Hoover 5/3/05
Re: On the other hand... sunny10 5/3/05
Re: On the other hand... » sunny10 Larry Hoover 5/3/05
Re: On the other hand... » sunny10 Tamar 5/3/05
((((Lar)))) » Larry Hoover gardenergirl 5/3/05
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Re: love the fun of volley, hate the competition.. (nm) » Larry Hoover sunny10 5/5/05

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