Posted by broken on May 2, 2005, at 15:02:32
In reply to Please help- need advice, posted by sunny10 on May 2, 2005, at 12:37:12
Hmmm, somehow I have a problem with you saying you are paranoid. You are dealing with somone who you know has lied to you in the past. I dont think it's paranoia, I think it's smart. You're simply guarding against being hurt again. If this was someone completely new, that had never lied to you before, that would be paranoia in my opinion.
Because of previous experience, it's not out of the realm of possibillities that he is not telling the truth again. The circumstances of his not living with you nor answering phonecalls are suspicious, and you know this, and your emotions are telling you to be careful, you dont want to hurt again.Trust doesn't return overnight, I wish it did. I think if you are intent on continuing your relationship, it's just going to take time. I wish you didnt have to suffer through it, but unfortunately, I don't know of any other way myself.
Wishing you the best,
Chris
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