Posted by Piquet on September 29, 2004, at 18:02:21
In reply to Re: Anvil Resistant Headwear?, posted by pegasus on September 29, 2004, at 17:03:36
> I have to say that in my personal experience, it hasn't been helpful to look for partners who had or didn't have any particular characteristics. When I met my current (and much beloved) partner, he was not my "usual type" at all, but he made me happy, and there just ain't anything better than that. If I'd seen a picture, or read an autobiography, I wouldn't have guessed that it would work out, but . . . it does.
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> So I recommend that you just look for someone that you click with, and don't worry about their dx history.
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> pegasusHi pegasus. Thanks for responding. While I'm happy for you, that's pretty much the way I've done things, too, and here I am by myself. (I do use a deodorant.) At my age I just don't want to invest another five years or whatever and see it all go pear-shaped again, so although I realise that it's partly a lottery, I'm just trying to work out how I can increase my chances of success. I'm not totally blaming my ex-partners or myself. It takes two to tango.
Piquet.
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