Posted by ron1953 on September 27, 2004, at 9:23:26
In reply to Re: Anvil Resistant Headwear?, posted by Piquet on September 26, 2004, at 17:34:19
Hi again!
Actually, I came to a conclusion a long time ago. NOBODY'S normal, whatever "normal" is. Some just think they are. Since I don't believe in normal, Santa Claus or the Easter bunny, I really think we're all "troubled". I think it's all a matter of self-awareness or lack of it.
Now, with the anticipation of a new relationship after nearly 30 years of marriage, my main concern and priority is whether a prospectve partner has a realistic understanding, acceptance and commitment to the hard work involved in nurturing and maintaining a vital relationship. I agree with Hendrix that marriage can be a very rewarding environment where a great deal of healing and personal growth is possible. But again, it's a lot of hard work that I think most people aren't up to. I think that's why so many marriages fail. My ex wasn't up to it, so she bailed. I think it's likely that an extremely troubled person wouldn't be up to the task, and the relationship would be doomed from the start.
Ron
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