Posted by Estella on May 12, 2006, at 20:25:08
In reply to Re: Avoiding sex with my wife. » curtm, posted by curtm on May 12, 2006, at 15:45:53
er... how come you guys don't try talking to your wives?
i'm serious.
to say some of what you said here.
maybe even to write it down and give it to them.that you like them and you really wish it was part of your relationship...
and that it doesn't seem so important to them...
and do they think something is missing there too?
because i'm not so sure that it is as simple as 'most women could do without it' and 'most men need it all the time'. i think people vary.
csa can make things hard...
and there are other things that can make it hard too.
there are other things you can do as well to feel intimate. massage and stuff like that...
and sex therapy...
but i'd say talk to them first.
poster:Estella
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