Posted by antigua on May 11, 2006, at 16:01:27
In reply to Re: Avoiding sex with my wife., posted by jonquiljo on May 10, 2006, at 16:18:37
even the Elephant Man had some good qualities. I'm sorry about the situation with your wife. My husband and I have been through dry spells, but now we try to make it more important in our lives--like planning a romantic evening w/candles when the kids aren't home. But the best thing is to try and get away together, alone. I've found that works best. I'm the one who could go forever w/o sex, or at least I think that way until it happens and I feel so much closer to my husband. It's easy to get trapped in that mindset.
Can you really talk to your wife? If you've tried a million times, try again and let her know how important this is.
Wow, I hope I didn't get too personal. This isn't like me.
best,
antigua
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