Posted by carolineislands on June 9, 2006, at 18:22:27
In reply to Re: Difficult to construe? » jonquiljo, posted by Estella on May 13, 2006, at 23:17:17
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Sometimes it's the most exciting time.
And I disagree that women have lower libidos than men. I think women start out with equal, if not stronger libidos, and sometimes years of frustration or trauma creates a feeling of hopelessness. I mean, lets face it -- lots of men don't want to take the time and effort it takes to learn the technique it takes to truly please and satisfy a woman. Many women are "faking it" and men don't even realize how frustrated they are. Imagine starting to have sex with your wife and just before the point of no return, it's OVER. How long would you want to do that?
Sometimes that's the problem. And I think lots of women just don't have to brash to stop and say, "Oh hu uh. You ain't done YET."
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I think sex gets MORE exciting over time. When you feel free with someone and you know that they know how to please you.
And I don't put forth an effort because of fear of my partner going to someone else. Actually I am much more aroused by a partner who I KNOW is not going to go ourside our relationship. That is a serious turn on because I don't have to worry who he's comparing me with. Then you can swing naked from the balconies if ya want to. But once I find out a man has been with someone else I never enjoy sex the same way with him again... NEVER. Because then, there's someone else in that bed with you -- someone you don't know and someone you didn't invite. Naw -- its the potential cheater that's a drag. A faithful man is the sexiest thing alive.
All in all, we should probably all just relax and enjoy the wonderful gifts that God has given us.
My advice to both you guys is to go grab your wife and ravish her with kisses... pull her down on the stairs... tell her you love her about a million times and then just have SEX.
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