Posted by carolineislands on June 9, 2006, at 17:47:54
In reply to Re: Avoiding sex with my wife. » jonquiljo, posted by curtm on May 10, 2006, at 8:57:58
> >> I am married and havent had sex for about 5 years.
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> Can anyone explain some reason why pople can be like that? Why would they want to abstain? Do they just not like sex? Is the relationship bad?There is something wrong with her. Either she has been sexually abused some time in her life, or traumatized in some way, or perhaps she has a hormonal problem. But it's not normal to just not want sex. Even people in bad relationships still have, and enjoy, sex. That's often the main reason people find it hard to get out of a long term relationship even if its bad -- the sex is still good.
For me, there's nothing better than sex with someone you've been with a long time. You've both gotten to know each other's bodies so well...
anyhow -- no I don't think its at all normal to not have sex with your partner for 5 years! I have trouble going without for 5 DAYS!
I couldn't live like that. My heart goes out to ya.
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