Posted by antigua on May 11, 2006, at 17:00:28
In reply to Re: Avoiding sex with my wife. » antigua, posted by curtm on May 11, 2006, at 16:24:32
well, my libido is certainly lowered by the AD I'm on, but even before that my husband's was stronger--except for our early, young days together when it seemed more even. Having children certainly gets in the way. But mostly for me it's the relationship. If I'm annoyed at my husband, and he tries to be friendly, I know he just wants sex and it has nothing to do with being nice to me at all. He needs to be nicer to me in regular life, and in truth it makes me want him more.
I also experienced csa and that has been hard to conquer in my relationship with my husband, but I think we've done a good job. Sex is definitely better than it was 10 years ago.
antigua, who's blushing at all of her disclosures
poster:antigua
thread:641864
URL: http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/relate/20060511/msgs/642720.html