Posted by gardenergirl on November 1, 2005, at 9:51:22
In reply to Re: Why does my husband keep ruining celebrations? » gardenergirl, posted by Dinah on November 1, 2005, at 7:22:56
> I think I'd find the deliberate part hard to handle too. And you can't fool yourself that it's not deliberate if he admits it.
Yeah, that's really a hard part of it. Even if I understand that he was upset, it's very cruel. And after the last time, he can't say that he couldn't predict how upset I'd be.
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> I'm sure he's upset and everything, but maybe he could schedule a Grievance Day enough ahead of the special day that things can be smoothed over by the time of the day you've looked forward to.I told him to send me an email. sigh
Thanks.
gg
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