Posted by antigua on October 31, 2005, at 8:45:06
In reply to Re: Why does my husband keep ruining celebrations? » rainbowbrite, posted by gardenergirl on October 30, 2005, at 22:09:32
Sorry about this, but I can relate.
things changed for me when I quit expecting anything. I try to enjoy the celebrations for me, and not just for him. He's always bad about Thanksgiving (when my family comes) and Christmas Eve service, but now I just go along on my own, trying to make the day happy, and i've discvored that if I focus on me and not him, he actually surprises me sometimes!
How long have you married?
an old married woman,
antigua
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