Posted by All Done on October 30, 2005, at 2:45:20
In reply to Why does my husband keep ruining celebrations?, posted by gardenergirl on October 29, 2005, at 23:30:36
Oh, gg. I'm so sorry your celebration didn't go as you had planned and that it hurts so much.
It might not help much now, but I know you have good judgement and there are lots of great reasons you married him. I'm just sorry he didn't remind you of those today. He will, though. Maybe when you're not expecting it.
And I know the feeling that once a special day is ruined, you can't get it back, but, for what it's worth, I've found that the *most* special days are ones you didn't plan to be special in the first place. Those, you won't ever forget.
Big hugs, sweetie.
I'll be around tomorrow. Call me if you want to chat.
Laurie
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