Posted by alexandra_k on November 1, 2005, at 4:33:21
In reply to Re: Why does my husband keep ruining celebrations? » alexandra_k, posted by gardenergirl on October 31, 2005, at 23:02:24
Hey. Yeah, I'm not really too sure about whats going on because I don't know that I've read all that much about this. But... I do remember you posting about your birthday and that one sounded really horrible :-(
I think it can be hard when one person has more outside friends / activities than the other. But I know what you mean about it being important for both of you to do that. Its something that is important to me too, so I get that.
And it can be hard to feel smothered too... Like someone is pretty much dependent on you. Because then I guess you pull away a bit, and then they panic a little and things escalate rather.
But sounds like...
You have been thinking about why it happens a bit...
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