Posted by antigua on November 18, 2005, at 16:40:24
In reply to Re: Hmm, realization today » alexandra_k, posted by gardenergirl on November 17, 2005, at 8:18:47
Sorry about the trouble. Sometimes things build up and explode on special occasions. I remember one anniversary things were so bad that my husband totally missed our anniversary. I remembered, but didn't say a word. I wondered how long it would take until he noticed. It took several days.
Now, my husband is really a very nice guy but he doesn't get it sometimes. We celebrated our 25th recently, and yes I got roses, and that was very nice, but it was our 25th anniversary! He didn't get it. I was hurt, but marriages are ebb and flow. It's too bad that the ceremony itself can be used against the marriage.
Keep working on it; at this point it seems your marriage is certainly worth it.
good luck,
antigua
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