Posted by sunny10 on November 4, 2004, at 12:56:27
In reply to Re: What is it ya' don't like about him? » 64bowtie, posted by crushedout on November 4, 2004, at 11:08:37
If you're serious about being a lesbian, you will never be truly happy "just" with a man!
It makes more sense to me, too, that you would be scared about him "finding out you don't love him anymore". I guess it would depend on what is more important to HIM.
Is it that you love him (you do, you know) or that you're IN LOVE with him (which you seem to know you're not, if you're truly homosexual!)
Some men don't even care about the sex part in a relationship (they can find it on the side) they are more comfortable knowing that you love and respect them as a person. That type of man could be fine with you with you as a lesbian (especially if he can watch!).
-sunny10
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