Posted by crushedout on November 5, 2004, at 0:53:54
In reply to Re: Is it really important to be in love? » crushedout, posted by alexandra_k on November 5, 2004, at 0:46:42
Well, the sexuality part for me is much more complicated than that. I'm sexually attracted to both men and women, but I can't fall in love with men (I'm not *romantically* attracted to them) and I have trouble reaching orgasm with women. So what am I? Unclear. I consider myself a bisexual homoromantic, but that's rather reductive.As for honesty, I have never lied to either myself or my boyfriend. He's known from the very beginning that I'm a lesbian and that I don't think I could ever fall in love with him. It's one of the things I liked so much about him -- that he was confident enough in himself to deal with that rejection and patient enough to see what happens between us even though I was so discouraging.
I've never been good at lying to myself about much of anything.
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