Posted by JoniS on August 8, 2007, at 19:02:18
In reply to Re: When to stay, and when to move on, posted by slugdoo on August 8, 2007, at 16:39:29
This is just a quick observation-
It seems to me like a few posters are minimizing the session Doo had with her T; chalking it up to ...just a bad hour... or something like that. I dont see it so simple as a bad session or just a "boundary crossed too far..." T's are held to an extremely high standard And they should be. What if we were talking about a surgeon? What Doo's T did was like a heart surgeon sewing the valves shut (excuse my lacking in medical terminology) That's more than a "bad day" that is catastrophic. What Doo's T did could have been "catastrophic" to her mental health & progress toward healing. IMO
I allow my T to be human and he shares some of his personal stuff so I see he's human. But to be intentionally mean & insensitive due to his own issues is inexcusable. I love my T too, but I wouldn't stand for that.
I think Doo did a very good and appropriate thing.
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