Posted by 10derheart on August 7, 2007, at 16:56:21
In reply to Re: HOLY CRAP!!!!, posted by sunnydays on August 7, 2007, at 14:31:02
I feel just that way, too, sunny, and you said it so eloquently :-)
Maybe it's the shock of reading how SD described the conversation that got to many posters? And when part of it is about something so inherently emotional and loaded as death and funerals, well, it's maybe quite triggering. I know I literally felt my stomach clench and had tears in my eyes when I read her initial post, knowing they have a special relationship as many here do with their Ts, as I do, as you do, to imagine hearing those sorts of cold-sounding things....:-(
All (civil) POVs are good here, I think. Outrage and anger and hurt validated, of course, yet also some empathy for a T. that *may* (we can't know, but are trying to give him the benefit...) be very much not himself right now, and SD was in the wrong place at the wrong time.
I hope everyone keeps offering up all sorts of thoughts and ideas. That seems to be one thing so unique and supportive about this board.
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