Posted by B2chica on August 7, 2007, at 7:57:59
In reply to Re: More » slugdoo, posted by Poet on August 6, 2007, at 19:03:06
(((((sluggy)))))))))
i am so sorry for your Terrible session...
i just can't believe how insensitive he was...i mean personally, given your history...did he not think that raising his voice to you might scare you?!
i REALLY like Poet's suggestion...i think that stating your name IS a really good attention getter. and works MUCH better with us.
now, hon, i want to make a comment about the funeral thing. i don't want to upset you...but i want to show you what he maybe meant. i work with clients that have in the past -past away, and because it can be terribly draining on a person you just can't allow yourself to go to client funerals...so i'm guessing that's what your T meant...
H O W E V E R!!!
i would NEVER in a million trillion years flat out to their face tell them that! i think that is Increadibly insensitive and quite frankly hurtful.
i've been invited on several occasions by spouses and just told them politely "i'll try to make it"...to be so cold as to say that is just...hurtful. i'm so sorry.
like you said, how are you supposed to open up to someone who blatently said he really doesn't care!
it's not much but take my warm hugs
(((((((sluggy)))))))))))
poster:B2chica
thread:774336
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