Posted by muffled on December 7, 2006, at 17:44:55
In reply to Re: sharing details IRL » muffled, posted by ElaineM on December 7, 2006, at 17:06:08
You've told 1 person. I almost afraid to ask what happened. Peoples reactions can vary SO widely to stuff.
Did it go OK?
You are having urges?
What kind of urges?
PLEASE stay safe El.
If you feel you got nothing to lose I guess you could talk to babblers. There's little we can do other than offer sympathy or our own personal experiences. Some may be able to offer useful advice.
There's always options.
Understand that the urges are from feelings, and feelings are signals, and you need to use your rational mind to keep doing what you have been doing, and sort thru stuff and get help with that where you can.
I'm so sorry you have such a useless T. I am so glad he is getting help. What ever happened about looking for another T or counsellor of some sort for a bit of support?
Its SO hard to see things clearly when your in the midst of a schmozzle. Its nice to have a person completely removed to help sort out truth and lies, possibilities, and things which just won't work.
To some extent we help each other this way on babble, but it does not replace irl friends or T's.
I am rambling alot.
Sorry.
I just kinda worried bout you :(
Muffled
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