Posted by cricket on July 14, 2005, at 19:15:34
In reply to Re: Parts coming out in therapy, posted by kerria on July 14, 2005, at 16:51:55
> Hi Jen Star, Cricket and Daisym,
>
> Everyone hears the battles because they're on the outside. i don't know what would be the best part to choose- i have to live them all in order to go to work and know what to do there or talk to anyone at home or anywhere else. i pick the part to be there when i am there. i know the feeling of being alone and so terribly lonely . No one will take my side even me- even my T is so critical of me. If anyone says a negative word T agrees against me. i wish that i had a T i could trust.Kerria,
I do know what you mean. Sometimes I don't trust my T either, and most of the time I feel like my T doesn't like me very much either. But for right now I am trusting that for whatever reason (sense of ethics, to build up good karma) he wants to help me.
I feel like I need all my parts too in order to function and sometimes if I don't go to therapy with a definite plan of who's going to speak one will just come out.> T says i'm so separated because
> 1. i'm doing things that are wrong now.
> 2. i'm afraid of facing things in the past
>
1) I don't understand. What are you doing wrong now?
2) Aren't we all? That doesn't sound very sensitive of him to say that.> Not a very good prognosis. Who'd want to make it anyways- struggl;e all your life to have everyone hate you and be critical.
>
Yeah, that's what I wonder far too often.
> having a hard time
> kerria
>
I'm so sorry about that. I am a little better than I've been in the past. Talk to us if we can help.
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