Posted by ghost on June 19, 2004, at 14:14:31
In reply to Re: delayed breakdowns-back again » ghost, posted by B2chica on June 18, 2004, at 11:40:22
I don't see anything wrong with written communication-- and running out afterwards! I agree that face to face is just WAY TOO MUCH most of the time. Espeically about important issues. I just think it's outstanding that you have the guts to tell someone your feelings. In any medium necessary.
> But i am Really focused on next tuesday. i am starting to really see him as someone to talk to, someone who will help me. So i think if that time came that i would really call him for help.
that's such a good sign! i'm glad.
> i actually have an outside key to my work so i could get in here for access if needed, but my husband's made all sorts of plans for me this weekend (i really hope several get "rained out") cuz being around crowds sometimes sets me off. not in front of them but later when i'm alone i have a breakdown. and of course both days he want's to be around my parents...i LOVE's my daddy and do want to see him a little on father's day but can't handle both of them for TWO whole days!wow. it's cool you have access to work after work hours. i know what you mean about your parents too. "too much of a good thing," perhaps.
> -yes i've explained this to my hubby, he just got grumpy and said 'whatever', so we'll see if he listens or not.
does it bother you when he does that? i think i'd kick my SO out of the house if they gave me that kind of attitude. but i'm learning how littl epatience i have with relationships...
> i just can't thank you enough for caring. i'm starting to feel a little funny again. (i wish i could explain this feeling that crosses the physical/mental boarder. But that's my one warning to stay away from known triggers= certain music, certain people, not walking around with a small pocket knife in my pocket...
it's sooooo good that you can recognize warning signs-- even if you can't explain them. (although "funny" works... i feel funny lately myself.)
> btw-when are you leaving to NH? how much longer are you in big red country?
I think i'm leaving monday. i'll be going to Kansas City to visit some friends for a few days, then on to Wisconsin for a Phish show (don't laugh, it wasn't my idea, or my ticket) on Friday, and then i'll be officially on my way to NH. Playing it by ear.
*hugs*
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