Posted by fallsfall on January 30, 2004, at 8:00:53
So we are supposed to ask for what we need. But what do you do when you ask for what you need, and your therapist verifies that they understand that this is what you need, but then they tell you that it wouldn't be "helpful" for them to fill this need.
It feels like my need is "bad". How are needs different from feelings? Feelings can't be "bad", they just are. Why can needs be "bad"?
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thread:307199
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