Posted by Susan47 on October 13, 2005, at 22:12:41
In reply to Re: VIBRATORS, posted by fairywings on October 13, 2005, at 15:53:38
psst, what're you too inhibited to do?
Hey, Tamar, you said this "I think some of that is the stigma, and some of that is that a woman's body is more complicated. I mean with a guy, it's just kind of there! With a woman, you have to explore different areas to find what feels best where."
I'm finding out that there's a lot of different things different men like, as well. I wonder how many guys have explored that with women, or how many women really know what makes their men tick, and I wonder sometimes, 'cause I know men say sometimes that masturbating and getting off on their own is a lot less stressful than having to do the whole sexual routine with a woman. Funny, I used to feel that way about sex with the ex. I'd pretend I was going to sleep, or wasn't interested, and he was a night owl so he'd always stay up late, and meanwhile I'd be making myself happy. If he knew that, he would've wanted to get right in there, and sex with him just wasn't as exciting as sex by myself! Whew.
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