Posted by Susan47 on October 13, 2005, at 21:48:49
In reply to Re: VIBRATORS **triggers**, posted by fairywings on October 12, 2005, at 22:59:02
> > This is also acceptable in the right context, and I don't think we are out of line in discussing this issue. We're allowed. We're not doing anything bad, we're not hurting anybody, and we're simply sharing good information that is helpful.
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> **Put the triggers in there, just in case**
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> I agree, and I think women NEED to talk to other women about this kind of stuff. Sexuality is perfectly natural, satisfying our own urges has really gotten a bad wrap and that's a shame. If some women are comfortable talking about it, then more power to us, we should support eachother; knowing that others won't be comfortable with it, and that's okay too. I've come a long way since I was raped when I was 14. I didn't like sex or anything that had to do with sexuality. Now it's just such a part of me, a part that I love, and am comfortable with. Of course, I don't go announcing it to the neighbors or anything, but talking about it to others of like mind is good.I was raped, as well. I was 18, and right now for some reaSon I can only think of the one time, but I know there were two. Maybe I just don't want to remember. Yeah, I felt like I was supposed to enjoy sex, and for a while I did, but something happened and I ended up letting myself be used.
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> Do you have an electric vibrator? Because my battery-powered one makes so much darn noise I feel like the whole neighbourhood can hear it. Sigh.
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> No, mine is battery operated. I know about the noise issue. On www.goodvibrations.com they have them rated by noise level and strength. Mine has a good strength, and is on the quieter side. If I turn on a CD at a low level no one can hear the vibrator.
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> You said you were getting a new one, right? Maybe consider checking out the noise level before you buy.
> Good luck!Yes, I think my next one will be electric though, no more battery-powered babies for me, one's enough and I'll just keep CW until he wears down.
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