Posted by Susan47 on October 13, 2005, at 22:06:55
In reply to Re: VIBRATORS, posted by caraher on October 13, 2005, at 11:29:13
So nice to hear from a male. Okay, you said this,
There is still something of a stigma to it for men in that if it is your *sole* source of release you're "less of a man" somehow. "Here I am, doing this again - what a loser!"I know the stigma you're referring to, it's like a macho male thing to have a woman or even more than one, accessible. But I think the real men are the ones who can take care of their own needs without taking advantage of anyone else, without putting out false feelings just to get laid. So, a lot of un-macho, loser men DO get laid. What a stupid stigma, and women have it too, don't kid yourself. We have the same stigma. It isn't really right.
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