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Re: Guilt guilt guilt, should I let it take me down? » maggie1970

Posted by jazzed on June 25, 2005, at 16:29:10

In reply to Guilt guilt guilt, should I let it take me down?, posted by maggie1970 on June 23, 2005, at 13:35:08

Hi Maggie,
Sounds like what you think your parents feelings would be about the fact that he wasn't divorced when you started seeing him might be contributing to your feelings of guilt? You didn't do anything wrong, so try as best you can not to beat yourself up. Can you see a therapist and try to work through the guilt?
Sounds like this man's wife was very cold toward him, and he had a loveless marriage. Who could live that way unless it works for both. In you he finally found what he longed for, and sounds like you did too. Take it slow and make sure it's the right thing for both.
Good luck!
Jazzy

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