Posted by Susan47 on June 23, 2005, at 20:14:29
In reply to Guilt guilt guilt, should I let it take me down?, posted by maggie1970 on June 23, 2005, at 13:35:08
Honestly, guilt is such a monster. What a vicious waste of time, really. Maybe the guilt is telling you you haven't looked at something you think you might've done. Like maybe you were attracted to this man from the very first, but you didn't admit it to anyone, maybe not even to yourself? Because it sounds like you would think it was wrong to be attracted to a married man. I can really understand that, I have that same guilt. Some married men are even more attractive than single ones, but it isn't being married that makes them attractive. You know, I don't think we need to feel responsible because someone we happen to love was married when we met him. Because he's taking full responsibility for his own life, maybe you should just relax and let it happen.
But try for the two-year rule maybe, before you actually make any premanent decisions about the relationship? What do you think?
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