Posted by sunny10 on May 23, 2005, at 7:56:18
In reply to Re: it's probably just the men we attract, but » sunny10, posted by Larry Hoover on May 22, 2005, at 7:26:03
obviously, by the subject line, I do KNOW that this is the type of guy I've attracted in the past- no getting around that. The common denominator is ME, absolutely.
I'm sorry if you felt put down. I WAS just talking about a group of men- NOT ALL MEN.
I haven't met them all (smile).And I am actually very much okay with all of the "human stuff" - gas, package and all... I grew up with an older brother (plus, I'm human and have been known to pass gas and adjust my bra!)
It's the physical space thing that gets me- and you mention it yourself. The solitude thing. In a Zen-like way, I realize that some time to oneself is important, but women make do with the usual rooms of the house for their solitude, why do men need a space that no one else is allowed in? And if you have that space, does that mean that the woman in your life is allowed HER own space, too? And then how much is spent on the rent or the mortgage for the two extra rooms rather than on the wellbeing of the family?
I meant it as a question... not a putdown. I was just looking for answers that I cannot find within myself, that's all...
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