Posted by Susan47 on May 9, 2005, at 18:15:49
In reply to Susan..or anyone who feels like rambling on..., posted by alesta on May 9, 2005, at 15:53:13
You don't seem like an introvert.
I don't think I have a type. I like men who're slightly extroverted, not to the point of being annoying about it though. I like the self-confident, sure type, nice-looking, attractive but humble about it, not assuming Anything because of his looks. I think, in general, guys tend to have an instinct towards natural self-inflation (OH THAT'S A KNEE-BANGER, banger, get it? All right) okay .. self-congratulatory-type behaviour. You know, I must be really good 'cause she wants me, that type of thing. Then there's the other kind, the kind who wouldn't assume you'd date him if he were Gates himself (no I wouldn't date that man I don't care how much money he's got, he's gross, his nature IS printed all over him, his features themselves aren't generally disgusting, although not overly attractive either, but it's his Nature, you know, it's the nature of the man that shows and makes him unattractive to me).
Hm.
Not answering any questions though, your question. I like extroverts, slightly but not annoyingly so, you know, like the kind of guy who thinks his personality is so wonderful he just HAS to be liked, the blind kind. Those men assume too much, waaaaayyy too much, they're generally really incredibly successful with women and because of that they're a bit empty inside. There's a hardness that men like this develop, over time. I don't know why that is, exactly. I've known incredibly good-looking men who don't assume too much, and the funny thing is, they're all in really happy or seemingly happy marriages, you respect these marriages because both partners seem well-balanced. Hmm. I don't know why I wandered over here, I'm sorry. My mind is dreamily wandering today. I feel free, and sad, incredibly sad. Because I'm thinking about tears being shed, unnecessary tears. Love is always just around the corner.
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