Posted by sunny10 on May 10, 2005, at 8:21:44
In reply to Re: Susan..or anyone who feels like rambling on... » alesta, posted by alesta on May 9, 2005, at 21:23:30
Amy,
I was kind of lurking this thread this morning and happened to notice one statement that you made that just kind of "popped" in my head. You know, an "aha" kind of "pop"...
You told Susan that you thought that maybe you could get through the romance part to get to the close frinedship part, but that you are unsure if you want to "work your life around theirs". (Not an exact quote, I know)
I think the whole point is "making a life WITH", not "around".
Do you think that would be possible for you? If not, why not? (I'm not trying to interrogate you; I'm attempting to develop a theory for myself about why we "feelers" spend so much time in pain instead of so much time with the elation feelings)
Thanks!
sunny10
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