Posted by alesta on May 10, 2005, at 12:08:30
In reply to Re: well you STARTED it » alesta, posted by sunny10 on May 10, 2005, at 11:47:13
> righto... well... hmmm...
LOL, oh sunny, i know, i'm kidding around!:) i do that sometimes..start topics that i wish i hadn't..hope that didn't sound bad..guess ya gotta know me to know when i'm just being silly:) i figured you'd be one of those types of ppl who wouldn't take offense..:) sorry! btw, i'm enjoying the topic again, and your response.:-)
> I guess I am rather consumed with that particular topic right now...
>
> Although my SO would ask why you can't have a relationship's closeness AND take time to enjoy your own company solo....yes. but that's hard to do in today's fast-pasted 8-6 world....
> So... we could segue (sp?) directly from his opinion on the subject and talk about why I disagree with him at the moment...
>
> It's a matter of what it is you choose to DO with your alone time. Are you afraid that someone will not accept you for what it is you choose to do by yourself?no, it's just the 'compromising'..i'd have to watch what he wants to watch on tv (a biggie), compromise on what music to listen to (another biggie), and a bunch of other minor stuff that adds up that i can't think of right now..
And that brings me to ...
>
> HOBBIES, et cetera... what DO you like to do by yourself? (Really asking for ideas- I mostly just read when I'm by myself and enjoy it immensely, but am very open to new ideas !!!)right now..my free time is spent fully with my mom..any spare moments i usually jump on this computer and do my little posting and reading frenzy...so right now, no real hobbies. i guess reading for me, too, would be my future hobby.:) i used too play my violin as well but had to sell that. i think another hobby to do would be singing. umm..what else..i might get another pet..guess it wouldn't constitute as a hobby, lol..
> (How did you like my method of "change of subject"?!?!)
beautiful, sunny, beautiful..:)
amy
poster:alesta
thread:492110
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