Posted by alexandra_k on May 5, 2005, at 23:56:18
In reply to Re: ReFeeling sexual, Me too (whine), posted by Susan47 on May 5, 2005, at 0:21:44
> It really doesn't matter, in this particular case, whether I felt real love for this man or not. What matters is, I FELT .. truly, something beyond words and very beautiful, and I have hope and this THING in my heart.
Yeah.
Enjoy the feeling.
But maybe it would be less painful to think about how it wouldn't work (with him anyway) in reality.
I just mean that feelings and fantasy can be really wonderful.
But when it hurts too much...
That might be the time to reflect on whether that feeling would / could remain were you to have an ACTUAL relationship with him.
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