Posted by backseatdriver on March 11, 2009, at 13:11:49
In reply to Re: Negative transference ) Fleeting butterfly + » seldomseen, posted by wittgensteinz on March 11, 2009, at 12:19:20
> He later said he had the feeling the conversation
> with the pdoc had had an influence on that session,
> saying that he wondered if he was too easy on me.Witti, I think this is a really important bit of information.
This pdoc is SO intrusive and dominating and undermining that he managed to temporarily persuade your T -- a trained professional who knows you a lot better than your pdoc -- that T is not treating you right.
In a way, your pdoc *solicited* your T. It seems like pdoc wanted to drive a wedge between your T and you, probably because he wanted to make sure his "diagnosis" turned out to be the correct one. This pdoc can't be wrong -- it is too much of a narcissistic wound. I don't like that, not at all.
Your T did an interesting thing, too. By pulling back from you, he let you know that something was up. He didn't say *what*, though -- perhaps because he knew that he should have been less impressed than he was by what your pdoc had to say. I wonder if your pdoc browbeat him at all. I suspect the answer is yes.
I feel very strongly that your pdoc is not worth your trust.
Best,
BSD
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