Posted by Wittgensteinz on December 7, 2008, at 4:25:58
In reply to Re: Memories (triggers), posted by lucie lu on December 7, 2008, at 0:12:52
I really appreciate that so many people have replied. I feel a bit guilty now because I think my second post made some feel compelled to comment when it was uncomfortable for them. That really wasn't my intention, and I hope I haven't triggered anyone else because of that.
That's what I meant about unwritten babble rules - perhaps some things shouldn't be posted. I think there are things I really wouldn't post and wouldn't want to read - but after posting what I did, I had the feeling I maybe had overstepped the mark and hurt others.
I sometimes wonder whether I should find another way to sound my thoughts when I'm going over things - I think a lot of people write a journal. I did this for a while as an early teen - but I was always terrified the wrong person would find it and read it. Anonymity gives one a special freedom of expression, and this is a place where others share a common ground - that's unique - I think that's what makes this place feel 'safe'.
So I want to say thank you for those who posted but also sorry for those who felt pushed into doing so. I feel like I've been manipulative. I responded how I did (that second post) because I felt terrified that I'd posted something that of course will never be removed and that it was the 'wrong' thing and that I'd upset everyone. Like coming to a wedding thinking it was a funeral and dressing accordingly.
Witti
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