Posted by fairywings on February 16, 2006, at 13:09:26
In reply to Re: I need some help -- trigger, posted by Daisym on February 15, 2006, at 23:23:03
If you can find the strength maybe just flat out saying, "therapy is non-negotiable, so it's not even on the table." Some things are "sacred", therapy is one. I agree with annie, your dh probably doesn't like the stronger daisy, but if he doesn't, then it's clear he's not looking out for what's best for you either.You really need to tell your T about the part you don't want to tell him. Seems that is vital info, and says a lot abt. your relationship with your husband - or at least it says a lot abt. your husband.
Controlling with anger is a sickness/abusive, will he get therapy for his anger? If you've answered this I'm sorry I can't remember. Could he take some kind of psychotropic to chill him out?
(((hugs)))
fw
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