Posted by antigua on February 28, 2006, at 8:26:23
In reply to Re: I need some help -- trigger » Shortelise, posted by Daisym on February 27, 2006, at 22:38:17
Oh Daisy, I've never heard you admit that you think you'll have to leave your marriage to get better. How that hurts, but it is so brave of you. I've often thought of this because my husband hasn't changed much and I've changed so very, very much. We have such a long history together (since jr. high) and I don't know what the right answer is--to give up that tie is such a scary thought.
I know you're suffering now, and you and your T are doing such great work. You're learning you can love, and that someone can love you back in the way you deserve. I don't mean w/your T, but I think you will see that just maybe it will/can transfer to real life.
I have so much I'd like to say, but that's enough for now. Hold on tight and think of those lovely boys you have.
love,
antigua
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