Posted by Voce on February 16, 2006, at 1:16:39
In reply to Re: I need some help -- trigger, posted by Daisym on February 15, 2006, at 23:23:03
Dear Daisy,
I'm so so sorry you feel so bad. I don't blame you for crying buckets. Standing up for ourselves is the hardest thing in the world because.....often we don't think we deserve it.
I don't know a lot about your relationship with your hubby, except that it's negative a lot of the time. I'm really sorry and this may be the dumbest suggestion in the world, but might it help him understand this whole thing better if he at least knew you had been abused? Not going into details of course....but....would it help him understand you a little better? Or does he care about understanding you at all? Or would it make everything worse?
I know you and your T will know what is best.
All I can do is offer safe hugs and tissues.
You are so valuable. You deserve to be safe and happy and cared for.
Voce
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