Posted by tabitha on June 9, 2004, at 1:38:51
In reply to Waaaaaahhhhhhhh, posted by Dinah on June 8, 2004, at 16:00:35
brave Dinah, I'm so sorry you're not happy with your hair. I don't have much experience with hair dye, but it can eventually be improved, right? And did you ask if the salon would modify it at no charge since it ended up darker than you wanted? Seems like they might do that.
The bigger concern to me is how you're shaming yourself over picking up on your therapist's taste and wanting to please him. That's nothing to be ashamed of. Of course little Dinah wants to know everything about him, and wants to please him, and wants to get his approval. Maybe I can put it in dog terms-- is it shameful when your dogs pick up on your tastes and try to please you? No of course not-- they're just being lovable puppies, and being true to their dog-nature. Same with little humans, wanting to please their primary caregiver.
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