Posted by pegasus on June 10, 2004, at 10:33:04
In reply to Re: Waaaaaahhhhhhhh » pegasus, posted by Dinah on June 9, 2004, at 22:22:30
I'm glad you're feeling better, and I like the way you're dealing with this issue of your hair. I'm sure it's nice to know that other people think the new color looks good, but in the end, it's your hair and it's more important how you feel about it. I know that I *hate* it when I get a different haircut than I expected, because, as you say, it makes me not look like myself. Which I agree can be disturbing. At least this is just hair, and not something permanent like a nose job. Not that I think you need or want a nose job, but my point is that eventually you can get back to your original hair if you prefer that.
I still am not sure that I agree that what your T said was correct, even if presented in an unfortunate way. If he were my T, I'd still ask him to explain how his opinion of me is none of my business, considering all of the intimate details that I had given him about me. And I definitely encourage you to mention your thoughts about not having a real relationship with him as a person. I'm curious whether he'd agree with that (I just know my Ts would not). And yet, it seems like those are perhaps more my issues than yours. I'm sure you'll talk about what you need to talk about.
pegasus
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