Posted by Dinah on June 9, 2004, at 22:22:30
In reply to Re: Waaaaaahhhhhhhh, posted by pegasus on June 9, 2004, at 12:16:17
Ouch is right, Pegasus. That was the point that the session turned from bad to disastrous. I had been trying to point out the dynamic of my picking up on his feelings and my excessive need to please him. But when he told me that it was none of my business, it felt like a slap. Maybe it was a slap I needed. But it did feel like a slap. My rational self is super-delighted and is only too happy to help me see the light. You should have heard the internal "AH HAH!! SEE I TOLD YOU SO!!!" that accompanied his statement that it was none of my business. But I can't help thinking that voice is right.
And yes, I think it was a mistake on his part. Even if what he said was the God's honest truth, the way he said it was a mistake.
poster:Dinah
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