Posted by shadows721 on June 8, 2004, at 16:59:29
In reply to Waaaaaahhhhhhhh, posted by Dinah on June 8, 2004, at 16:00:35
Dinah,
Having your hair done is a major adjustment. I am not kidding here at all. I had a hair dresser say don't do anything to it for 3 days, so you eye will adjust to it. So, please, keep that in mind. Also, hair color tends to fade with washing. That deep color will fade with repeated washing.
I think this was a very big step for you. I think this is going to take some adjusting for you. I think your response to this process was normal. Perhaps, a part of you didn't really want to change at all. Change is a very scary thing. Is your hair maybe more a more modern look? Look around at others. People are doing so many things.
I have really no idea what your hair really looks like here. Were you wanting a positive compliment from your therapist? Is that why you think it doesn't look good? It sounds like he is trained to remain neutral about his opinions.
What is important is how you feel about how you look here. You need to meet your approval. You can change your hair as much as you want. It's all yours. You have made a brave step to make a change. You can decide if you like it or not. This maybe a whole new awakening for a new way of expressing yourself as you want. If you don't like the color, it can be changed. If you don't like the style, it can be changed too. I think the only thing that matters is how you feel about you. Maybe, this might go into the wardrobe and makeup. Who knows what's in store....
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